How can I tell what I really look like when peoples opinions vary so much?

stop listening to what other people say about you, or you'll go mad! do you always fancy the same people as your mates? I bet you don't. in fact, I bet you love nothing more than arguing about who's hot and who's not. people are attracted to different things, what is a total turn-on for one will be a total turn-off for another, and you will never, ever be able to please everybody. learn to look in the mirror and love what you see, because there's nothing sexier than confidence.